What’s going on

Is everybody breaking up? It seems like it’s not just me, but 2 hands full of relationships Ive heard splitting up. Honestly. I don’t know which candle to purchase. We both need to get over the past problems we’ve had, better our communication as individuals because our foundation got rocky. We’re both set on being together but obviously don’t know how long it’ll take.. dont know the rules and regulations of space so it’s hard not to be hard on myself.