4th Update. Halo. Crossroads. DA.

Alright, recap. I ordered halo for myself and this guy I’m dating and trying to make sure he makes me his Gf. Everything is great, just need him to just make me his girl. So I figured halo can heal and clear us of any negativity weighing on us. Used a picture of us and put the info on the backs bd let it burn. Put it out once and then finished the second time. Smelled it down my hall of my apartment building. Nuts. Then I lit crossroads to remove any blockages from bringing us together. As I was crying on my couch about the situation I smelled smoke all of a sudden and then I ran to see it almost burning down the altar. I grabbed socks and tan to the kitchen with it until it burned out. It burned the socks and I had to toss it. The timing on all of that was crazy. We then spoke on the phone and got into a subject about our feelings and he said that we were going to sit and talk about our feelings in depth. Hmm. Interesting I lit DA the day I got my period a couple days later and added some drops. I spent 2 days straight with him and slept there 3 nights (I was suppose to leave last night and he said no because it’s dark lol I’m a grown woman and it was like 7pm). We spoke and he wants to take his time to have individual growth because he’s been in relationships back to back but he’s with no one else but me and he’s not investing his time for nothing... he just needs time considering what I’m asking for is marriage and kids. He was extra loving and asked what he could do in the meantime to make me feel secure. Welp.... this is working in my opinion. ... any suggestions on what to do next?!