First let me say I’m a super newbie. I tried a candle after seeing an ad on Instagram and thought way not. I got results albeit not exactly what I wanted, but considering I’m clueless I consider it a win. I can only imagine had I known what I was doing, what would have happened.
I’ve read several posts and after adding numerous candles (over $400). I wanted to get some advice. Especially since ordering a Rite is cheaper than what’s in my cart 😊
I was in a relationship with a guy that’s 17 years younger than me (I’m 43 & He’s 26). We do work together and have great chemistry. Our relationship was great until he encountered some personal & professional barriers, so he had to ‘work on himself’. I technically broke up with him to give him space and immediately regretted it, so I went back to let him know how I felt, but to no avail.
He has really distanced himself and although we see each other at work, he barely looks or even talks to me. He recently told my work partner that he couldn’t get past the age difference. I thought about using the Dream candle to Incept ( Like the movie Inception) into his dreams that the age difference doesn’t matter and to remind him of our chemistry. The after taking the quiz, I also added the Tranquility bundle and Lover’s Return Bundle (hence the Rite is cheaper).
Thank you for reading to the end. Again, any & all advice is appreciated. Understand that because this a relationship at work and it ended, I have some pride issues mixed in there too.


Do you recommend Candles or the return lovers rite? I’m also new in this thank you!!
Hi. First off I love what MoonMagiik so eloquently said. I love Lala’s rites and I would strongly recommend the the Sun Rite and the Mercury Rites- like as routinely as possible; Just like as a part of Standard Operating Procedures. I also love ChaelaBre’s cleansing, healing and protection ceremonies over at soulpurge.com If you want to do the lover’s return rite, I say do it. It’s not gonna harm. If it’s possible I would also add in the 3x blood rite. I want you to have what you want. With that said, I think there may be more for you in future, which may or may not include your target (the 26 yr. old) You’re obviously hot and desirable (I don’t think this would be happening if you weren’t). I think you have more ‘power’ here then you may currently recognize. Whatever you decide to do here, I would strongly recommend in future: Unhex Halo Crossroads Healing Mars spelled Then whatever your focus. All the while adding in Sun and Mercury Rites when you can.
Hello Chrissy, I know you’ll have people just tell you to start burning this and that off bat, but, pls assess your situation, even though age is just a number, try to think about WHY he cant get past the age gap and what it means to him, i know many of us do work because we only consider our feelings in the situation and not the other person’s, but if you can have a good conversation with him, Do so. Its good to find out what’s happening, does he want children, is his family going to not approve of the situation, there are sooo many factors that probably need to be worker on that no one knows to just tell you to burn this and that. You might need way more. But first, get a clearer understanding of ALL the factors of why he doesn’t want to continue.