Burned Halo and Un-Hex in wrong order, joined the forum found out I burned in the wrong order. There's more LOL please help

When I first started this journey, I ordered Halo, Un-Hex, DA and the devotion bundle.  So far I burned Halo Un-hex in the wrong order, then sweetening then DA. A week or so ago I started to burn 1st Pentacle of Saturn for 6 hours Also no movement, I have been at this for two months.  When I became part of this amazing forum, I found out I burned Halo and Un-Hex in the wrong order. So I panicked and wanted to restart because I haven't received any movement and I was convinced something was wrong because of the order I burned the candles.  So now I went ahead and reordered Un-Hex, Halo and then Healing. Also reached out to Chaela, and she recommended a soul purge for my target and I, then continue with the restart at my end with the candles. Low and behold? Last night I got a text from my ex because he wants to see me, and I panicked again because now I have these candles coming that I might not need??  I don't know what to do! I know you said no refunds, because there are no refunds and luckily the order hasn't been shipped yet,but what if I want to switch my candles to different ones instead? I'm caught in a dilemma because do I restart and do it right and continue with the 1st pentacle of saturn when I'm done with the Un-Hex Halo and Healing? If so, i'm frightened it will ruin what is brewing with my ex I just need your advice in what to do