Intense finally broke my stubborn target

We have been dating for about a year and she is very stubborn and hasn’t really been in a real relationship before or been in love so she has issues with both especially communication we both do....so this morning while intense was still lit we got into a huge fight and she called me after work in the afternoon and said this isn’t gonna work you want what I’m not and just was saying really mean shit I was so upset so I simply said okay I’m not gonna beg you to stay I’m gonna move on and she hung up then like a hour later the intense candle is done....2 hours go by and she text saying she’s sorry and she said hurtful things that she didn’t mean because she was mad I didn’t reply so she called me and I literally expressed how I was feeling things that’s has been built up for months then I started to cry literally her first time ever hearing me cry or express myself the whole year we have been dating I know I’m a tough cookie lol but she just stayed quite and for once listened to me for real and I just kept going all my feeling poured out which I never do ever I’m the type to bottle everything in so I was so surprised at myself as I’m speaking then I told her I’ll call her back lol she text me twice I didn’t answer then she called me back to back to back I finally answered and she started to actually open up she said hearing me cry like the really hurt her and it made her sad and she had no idea I felt like that or that I even cared enough to cry over her we literally talked for 2 Hours having a heart to heart and she told me she wants to continue to learn how to love me and she’s never been in love the way she is with me I’ve never heard her speak like this it’s crazy the way the universe works in order for her to open up I had to open up I feel closer to her than ever not everyone uses these candles to make someone like or love them this candle helped us both to communicate with eachother something that we weren’t able to do the whole year! I am very grateful for you LaLa I was started to think she was never going to open up it’s not that she doesn’t love me she’s had a hard life so it’s hard for her to show it in the way that I want but she is willing to stick around to learn