Okay I wanna start by saying hubby and I are nowhere near bad in our relationship. We both learned to open up and talk through our feelings when we get into an argument because we promised each other that this marriage would be our first and last marriage. We go through this whole listen and repeat method when we need to for communication to flow more smoothly
Example:
“I wanted to tell you the way this and that happened and how you acted towards it made me feel blah blah blah“
or
”In my opinion it felt like you were doing blah blah blah and I felt this type of way”
ANYWAY
After having our daughter our intimacy has been a work in progress. Sessy times once or twice a month at best, barely hold hands, we hug occasionally and kiss here and there but if you know toddlers you know it’s not easy on your marriage. We both agreed on getting rekindle thinking it would help with that and after searching through the forums I can’t find any concrete stuff about it used while IN a relationship. The ones I did read were… not great 😭
Has anyone in a long term relationship used rekindle before and what inspired your chant for it?
Rekindle the love and passion that once exsisted.. Rekindle the fun and friendship that once was..Rekindle the happiness, affection..etc
I haven't gotten or used it yet, but I was considering getting rekindle for my long term relationship. I would chant something like the flames of our passion are burning bright, (name) and I burn with desire for each other like in the beginning, we can't keep our hands off of each other, reignite our desire for each other like two teenagers, etc. 😁