Y’all noticed ???

Wow i didn’t even know that

Can u give me more details

Omg gurl Yes! What’s goin on ???

Idk gurl

The end of my healing and the flame 🔥 wild ‼️

Well, like I've stated earlier. My guy is the same. I tell him how I feel...he goes ghost which I feel is childish and cowardly. Nobody likes to be told if they're doing something wrong...but if he's not willing to change then you do what's best for you. You said he's done so much and you've accepted it...you've already told him indirectly he can do whatever and you'll still be there. Remember men and women will only do what you allow them to. We get so comfortable when we are in love and they feed off of that. I can't tell you what to do but for now I'd back away. If he's not ready, he's not ready. Take some time to work on you. If you want to use the candles go ahead...but remember a person's free will is stronger than any candle....we try so hard to fix things that simply aren't meant to be fixed...or not right now. But if you wanna go for it, unhex, halo, healing, 5th POM or papa Legba, maybe erzille Freda... devotion bundle or lovers return if he's gone...ahari where you see fit and 2nd POM if he's still stubborn. Use that where he's the most stubborn at. Burn the first three...clear your mind and cleanse yourself and then see how you feel.

I know, I haven’t reached out to him and been giving him the silent treatment. He always comes back but I just hate he comes back with the same old BS. I want him to come back correct

I understand. If and when he comes back put your foot down. If things don't change or if he's not willing to at least compromise with you so that yall can be on the same page, then you leave. Sometimes you gotta flip the switch.

Oh he sees it. Constantly tells me he loves me, etc. Bullshit love is what love does. Even told me I'm the best he's had. But he doesn't want to commit to me. I can't say if he's ever stepped out on me nor have I asked or tried to find out. You go looking for trouble you'll find it. He knows the kind of woman that I am but for his own reasons which I have to respect he doesn't think I'm the one for him. When we argue nothing is ever his fault...its always mine...im too emotional a crybaby all that mess. It hurts like a motherfucker but I have to respect his feelings. Anything I tolerate afterwards is on me and for that I decided to take the steps to heal and move on..it's hard...I'm torn...this healing candle is almost done and I really just want to cry my ass off. But I gotta go through the rough waters to heal. I'd rather take the time to get over him then to spend money trying to get him to see what he already knows. There's someone out there for me....maybe our hearts will meet again in the future but for now I'm just gonna keep working on healing myself. I've allowed myself to go through unnecessary heartbreak for a man who's told me many times and shown me he's not going to change. They'll say them sweet nothings to get you where they want you and it's back to the same bs. Gotta break that cycle and that soul tie.

I feel you babe I've been told too that he's not the one for me. We've had big plans too. I'm okay for now.

After you did your Halo, did you wait 3 days and then burned Healing or did you wait more days in between? LaLa didn’t recommend Unhex to me, but do you think I need to do Unhex for my relationship work or do it when I do my separate healing work for just myself (not relationship related, but for past trauma)?

I did it 4 days later....I'd do unhex for you first. Then proceed with Halo. You can include him in unhex as well if you'd like

Awe shit

There's no rush lol I kinda wanna let the UnHex halo and healing take its course a lil while longer. But I don't think it'll be a problem if I do use a conjure candle tomorrow...didn't you do 1st POM the day after sweetening?

My halo finished Friday morning , he left Friday. then 1 POM right after on Saturday afternoon, then sweetening Sunday and it finished Monday. And he called this morning

@Brandy Wilcox Did you use OH healing or XL? XL wasnt available yet when I ordered mine.

I got the small one, same here the XL wasn't available at the time I ordered mine.

@songbirdinform I'm an Aquarius!

So am i❤️🙌🙌

Still good hearted.❤️Good hearted ppl have a lotta work assigned .A lot of hurt is involved,but not personal...Protect your heart.

Part of healing is to accept the situation and own it. Folks are so ashamed and worried about what the next person gon say... and of course some folks just want to see you unhappy....you never know how your story can help someone else.

@Taylor Wow thank you for that! I KEEP ONN sewing testomonials a out unhex and healing. When I placed my order I was only going to get Unhex...ended up getting 4 items...I felt drawn to get Healing and I thought why healing and not halo? I obeyed..and it was cheaper...I'm glad I did, I keep getting confirmation that I made right choice!!🤗

@Taylor Wow thank you for that! I KEEP ONN sewing testomonials a out unhex and healing. When I placed my order I was only going to get Unhex...ended up getting 4 items...I felt drawn to get Healing and I thought why healing and not halo? I obeyed..and it was cheaper...I'm glad I did, I keep getting confirmation that I made right choice!!🤗

It's a ritual to remove negative ties to an unhealthy relationship. I had it done once last year and it did not work lol primarily because I really wasn't ready to let go completely. As soon as she did it he text me and I fell for the BS and went through the same shit with him again. They can feel when you're about to leave. They play hard to get and like they don't care...will go entertain someone else but they'll come back or try and string along an ex... especially if she's good to him or if she just simply allows him to cone and go. Men and women...don't wanna be biased they'll do what you allow them to..that's why I said just because they come back doesnt always mean they want you

Lol I'll be ya spirit best friend!!!! I'm a southern belle. On the gulf coast

Or they need what you have!

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Shit hit the fan when the healing candle was on the way in the mail. I went back and read the description and it said brings truth to your situation. The level of hurt and depression I was at when everything just hit the fan...man I burned unhex and halo and I'm at peace. I still have my moments don't get me wrong but overall I'm in a better place mentally.

Yes lawwwdd!! It’s really revealing it self for sure

Girl wheeww shit took me for a loop 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What was the root cause to your situation? You don’t have to answer if you don’t want. I’m just curious. 😊

No biggie, he and I don't want the same things. He's emotionally unavailable, insecure and hasn't healed from things from past relationships nor has he accepted responsibility for his actions from those relationships. He's mean and extremely stubborn and has no regards for my feelings. Extremely selfish. The type of woman I am he's not used to nor is he interested in. I don't doubt he cares about me but he doesn't want what I want in the long term. It's more convenient for him to keep me in arms reach and that's it. I deserve more than that I'm nobody's sloppy seconds and I'm not a yo-yo either.

Well said.You deserve more & pray his healing ❤️

Something in the air and i hate it

That May be The Most High tryna Dave they ass from them,because you k or some of us as women ,don’t wanna,and will not!! Let go!!😂😂😂😂 atleast that was the case for me,and it was a woman

I meant save not dave 😂😂