My bf had a true problem with loving the feeling of that adrenaline he got when he cheated. He was a man that had a legit problem with this and it hurt me so often. I got to the point where I was going to finally leave him but I said “let me try one more thing”. So I lit this candle and used the exact words that were in the book for the chant. A day or two later. He made the choice to go hang out with a woman (lala said this does not stop free will). But he told me about it because I asked him where had been (he usually lies). He said he ended up leaving her by herself because he was so disgusted with how cheating made him feel. If you go look in the book one of the words lala used specifically was “disgusted” for this chant. I still have my thoughts but this was a step in the right direction. We now either will work things out because this worked. Or he’ll continue to utilize his free will and think about cheating and be turned off by it. We’re also on a complete break right now lol
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As just like that, Lala drops the Fidelity candle. 🙂 Hope everything works out for your highest good.