I am looking to do some work on my son. He's 11 with ADHD and ODD. To say he's a handful is an understatement. He's a good kid but struggles academically and with interpersonal skills. The older he gets, the worse it becomes. What I am noticing is when he goes to school, he's being targeted alot more and at this point I am completely at a loss. I just need to get him through this school year so I can really focus on working on his behalf when he goes to middle school in the fall. Any ideas on what I can do to help him?
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.
That’s a great idea!❤️✨♥️I think Still would definitely help❤️✨♥️ But for sure I would do heavy layers of protection like Saturn3, Mars6 or Moon4. Speaking from extensive experience with navigating through the challenges it can present with schools/teachers- stuff like that, I think protection is critical for any child, or any person really, anyone who has any learning disabilities, and/or clinical disorders, behavioral, neurological, psychiatric, whatever, anything like that. Probably even head trauma, brain injury, PTSD, anything like that. My own experience has been when people (children and adults) get the heavy layer of spiritual protection, they noticeably improve. I came to Lala with my own problem needing protection but when I do the candles I always extend the protection to the whole household. That’s how I discovered that Moon4 and Mars6 seem to have an amazing effect. The change in behavior I’ve witnessed is pretty extraordinary. Much more patient. Doesn’t get frustrated as easily. Handles frustration MUCH better- like an exemplary model good deportment. The only thing different has been Lala’s candles and the rites and ceremonies I’ve done.
I am in the same boat.
Do you think peace would be good for this or still?
This is wonderful! I had a feeling he might be super intuitive. I would do Unhex, halo, healing just because I would do that first for anyone I wanted to help. I really think the very heavy protection might do the trick. I would strongly support and encourage his talents. If it’s possible, if it would work for you, your family and him, I would consider an alternative type school like those Waldorf schools. (Just thinking about a school environment which is accredited but which may be much more supportive of him and you and your family.) If that’s a consideration then I would do candles to get him in, get him a scholarship if necessary. If that’s not an option then I would probably put the Bella candle on him routinely. I would want teachers, peers, everyone to see and respond to his unique ‘beauty’, his soul/spirit in a way which is supportive. I think his ODD may respond very well to the heavy protection. I would consider placing an amethyst in his bedroom along with a Smokey quartz and maybe a citrine. (The reason for his bedroom is because ideally he sleeps 8 hrs a day and that allows him 8 hrs of interaction with the stones.) If you have a yard and can plant gardenias I would consider doing so. If you’re in a colder climate I might think about an apple tree. Any fruit tree really. A clear faceted crystal ball in a window in his bedroom or a window in the home where he spends a lot of time can also be supportive. Flowers and fruits can be especially supportive. They can also help transmute whatever may need it.
Same situation with my child it's good to know I'm not alone 🙏
Hi. I would do Unhex, Halo, Healing, and then Mars. One whole Unhex candle, one whole halo candle and one whole healing candle followed by one whole Mars spelled. Then periodically I would do Unhex halo healing as needed, and maybe not burn the whole thing at once. I would routinely put heavy love on him. Self love, self esteem, nice people, supportive people- those types of candles. Probably once a month or once every other month I would do a Mars 6 or Saturn 3 protection candle on him. Maybe every 3rd or 4th month I would do a 4th pentacle of the moon on him. His ADHD can be a terrific asset, a blessing really- but it does make him vulnerable in ways others (without ADHD) are not vulnerable. I would routinely put heavy protection on him. In my opinion ADHD can enhance intuition/psychic abilities etc, that’s also why I would apply heavy aggressive protection routinely. He’s different. These differences can be an extraordinary gift which can put him at an advantage in life but I think he may always need heavy protection. Also, I would do the heavy protection frequently on yourself. For me, 6thPentacle of Mars is a very soothing candle. I feel like it’s like having a private security detail. For the ODD I would try a full size sweetening candle, maybe monthly. Unhex Halo Healing Mars Sweetening Esteem And then re-assess. For you during this I would probably get the Halo/Mars intense candle and do it weekly, just a six hour burn each week unless you had a gut feeling to go longer. I highly recommend Chaela’s Protection Ceremony for him as well. (I recommend it for anyone but I’ve witnessed how it’s affected someone with significant disorders. It manifested such a huge difference that I signed that person up for it again.) If you have a yard, and if he could be interested in plants or nature, I think it might help him. He might respond well to the support plants can provide. Does he sleep well, and through the night? Does he like sports, or art, or music? Like, does he have a hobby? ❤️❤️♥️❤️✨🙏