Hey guys so I have using Lalas candles for about 4 months for a specific situation. FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS at work in which I'm trying to be his only commitment. He has committment issues. We vibe very well and I know he cares and has feelings for me, it's just a matter of him admitting them. Now I have used Halo, healing on myself a few months ago and it worked. Clearing away my blockages and healing my wounds from my past. I then purchase a lovers return pakage- sweeting, rekindle, 4th pentacle of venus, obession. And I also purchase Deadly Attraction. And bought and obession jar from Mama vodou bf she went on Mama leave. I follow the instructions for rekindle package. And sure enough it brought him back! Now that was about 3 weeks ago. Now there has been some recent development and we kind of had a awkward night last night. >basically he invited me out and I turned out to be a third wheel with another girl...who kinda had an attitude towards me. Like didn't speak and kinda seem bored....needless to say it was a 20 min waste of lashes! They ended up leaving and I was left alone! So being me I called him out and said it was crap to invite me for like 20 mins... so I decided to just give space and leave it simmer. So yes before I hear...is he worth it?...yes my feelings for him are strong. And I want him to want me . Obession is my goal. I want him to see what he is missing and I want him to just gravel at feet. So my question to you all is what to do next? Should I just play out the recent situation out? If so how should I act? As if nothing happen? Or should I stick to my guns, and make sure he knows what he did was crap.? Play hard to get and ignore him until he caves and apoligizes? Should I like any candles? I did recently just ordered the commitment bundle hoping for that to take him to commitment level.
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Make sure you use halo , healing and crossroads on you and him also together
You did right to call him out. Men love a challenge. Being passive won’t win him create boundaries make him respect you.
Maybe spirit allowed that to happen to show you he isn’t the one? I recall LaLa saying something along those lines on IG.
Oh he certainly needs to know about that crap move he made! Devotion Bundle.
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