Last week, I lit Ahari to boost my relationship with the guy I am seeing. I was filled with positivity when I lit it but I saw positive signs too. Then I burnt DA along with Ahari, cos I wanted him to come to me and desire me. That was a turning point, our dates kept postponing. He did come meet me but he gave me a news that I didn't see it coming - "my family has set me up with a girl, but I am going to reject her anyways cos I don't want to go with her". Ever since I have heard that he is talking to someone else, my mind is filled with negative thoughts, neediness and anxiety. I am scared that cos of Ahari my negative thoughts might come to life. I am trying hard not to think negative but this news is really making feel that he may slip away. I can't express how I feel to anyone, I don't know what I should do. I had burnt halo before. Should I do healing? Will it help? I am really scared messing this up even more.
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Don’t bring the other girl into your reality. She doesn’t exist. Keep in mind that “you’re all he thinks about, no matter what he is doing, no matter who he is with, he is always thinking about you”. Speak into existence, impecable with your words. Control your reality, you’re the master of your destiny
This sucks. I know the feeling and it’s hard. With experience I have learned to let men like this go. Tell him that if he wants to be with you he has to clear these bitches out of his path. Once he does that he can come look for you. Make yourself more valuable. To help with the feelings, start meditating, start self love talk and stay focus on you. Keep your vibrations high and block him out of your head for now. This is the rejection feeling. You’s a bad Bih, and keep telling yourself that.