I found a box of Lala's spelled candles in my old closet today, they were not used when I decided to give up on that ex who wasn't my time & love.
Now 3 years on, I met someone I like, and I feeling ready to dive deeper to develop a relationship, but his ex who ghosted him 10 months ago resurfaced suddenly, I could see he is wavering and I am affected.. I want to put a stop to this..
Finding these forgotten candles now is probably a sign that they will be helpful for my current situation but I am not sure of the sequence I should use them. Would appreciate if someone could give me some advices?
Bella
Obsession
Ahari
Esteem
L'Amour
Rekindle
Collect
Mars
Summon
Do not put his name in the freezer.
And watch how things get sour with them
Freezer spell is quick
I would approach this situation from the angle of working on yourself, for yourself, period. Love and empower yourself so much that regardless of what he does, YOU are the prize and YOU are thriving! Don't allow him to make you an option.
I would use your arsenal for you, on you.
Cleanse yourself if you haven't in a while.
Crossroads/Blockbuster.
Mars - protect yourself from all fuckery.
Esteem/Bella.
Bella/Esteem.
Summon - people who love and adore you completely.
Collect - MONEY! and adoration.
(Possible) Obsession - For when those good folks come in, then make them obsessed with you.
Mars (again) - Protect your work and self love from fucktards and people who would try to feed off your BOMB ASS ENERGY.
Don't let anyone's unsure son put you off your throne, Queen.
Just my two cents...Empower yourself. Love yourself. Get that bag and folks who love you obsessed with you and supporting you the way you deserve.
I'm sure there's a lot more traditional "love work" sequences you could do....but my most effective work is when I am the target and I am invested in only making myself better. Any other strategies in that capacity were a waste of my time, money and energy.
Hope this helps!