I've been told I'm an empath and after doing some research, I think that makes sense. I don't know how to control or regulate it and it often causes problems. People have called me mean or distant or depressed when really I only act that way because I've absorbed these spirits from them. My fiance has fighting spirits lately and its hard to be around him and he wonders why I'm distant or not intimate. I've purchased a domination and gf for him that havent come yet but being around him lately drains me more than I've been able to handle because he's depressed even if he doesn't feel like it. I think the main reason he doesn't feel it though, is because after being around me 10-15 minutes, I've absorbed it all. I've been cleansing myself with sage probably more than I should because that's all I know to do. I've felt my "gift" get stronger since I comforted a woman who's daughter she believed was kidnapped a few months ago and it took me a while to get rid of that spirit. My fiance takes me being an empath lightly. Probably because he doesn't believe it but I need advice. How do I cleanse the spirits better? I cant burn candles and sage everyday... or should I? I don't know. I just don't know what to do with this
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You’re welcome 😉 and @Rachel StarRabbit I use Florida water in my room spray as well. It’s awesome
There’s a conjure candle specifically for this purpose. I forget which one but Lala mentions empaths in the description. I use Halo and Mars every other month because of this.
What’s Florida water ladies?
In addition to cleansing it is essential that you ground and shield yourself. You can do this via mediation. Get in a comfortable seated position and imagine a white light shinning into you. Once you’ve gotten a handle on the light start mentally directing it like a ribbon. Imagine yourself building a barrier around your body. You can build a bubble or swirly rings around yourself. Be sure to seal it once complete. You can quickly do this while in your car as well. You must also learn to release energy after you’ve worked with people. YouTube is your friend here.
I’m sorry it’s becoming a rather heavy task for you... that has to be rather draining! All of the above recommendations are great. Also, maybe consider looking into ways to transmute that energy into a positive one. One of the 12 laws of the universe (if you know about the Law of Attraction, then you know one of them), is the law of perpetual transmutation of energy. I’ve noticed that observing and practicing these laws have greatly helped me, just as some of us use the lunar phases or chants, with the candles Lala offers. Of course: Always, always protect yourself. Best of love to you
I learned I was healing someone but because the individual is so negative, it was making me ill. (Even after my regular cleansings I do just for maintenance.) Had to get some black salt and bathe with it once a week, pray while doing it, place it in the four corners of my room...and fall back from the person. Which was a bit difficult considering we live in the same house. Mars has helped greatly, and I feel much better. It's a pain sometimes, but I am honored to have the ability. I also learned covering your head (I wear a bonnet to bed and hair weaves during the day) helps out as well. Hope this helped. ❤
you may need to do the fiery wall of protection for your home & a sachet for you to go outside keep us posted
Sorry you’re having such a tough time with this. I sage and use Florida water multiple times a week. I burn Halo every few months. I put a little bit of Florida water in my body wash to help me cleanse. I also wear the black tourmaline bracelet often to help with protection.