Excuses

I think just their names multiple times

I get what you’re saying. You never know when your bag might need to be searched and if you stay ready, you ain’t gotta get ready! She hasn’t owned up to it but trying to figure out what to say. So maybe she shouldn’t say anything if not owning up to it.

I don’t think she needs to say anything. He called her an “evil witch bitch”. If he called her “evil” she doesn’t have to respond. If he called her a “witch” she doesn’t have to respond and same if he had just called her a “bitch.” She can just stand there and look at him. She’s neither confirming or denying anything. If she’s doing work for him, or on him, she still doesn’t have to say anything. What he says reflects himself not her. He could call her a cockroach but that doesn’t mean it’s real or true. It’s just what he says. If I liked him and I didn’t want him to freak out I would say, “You found our picture where I wrote our names over and over and now you think I’m an evil witch bitch.” Him: You evil witch bitch! Me: You found our picture where I wrote our names over and over and now you’re calling me an evil witch bitch. Or say it with a question Mark at the end, lol.

I think if she likes him and wants him in her life I wouldn’t say anything. Like when there’s an ongoing investigation, and the authorities cannot confirm or deny anything.

Girl Frfr….she has caught him lurking in her purse before as well as her dresser drawers.

If there are trust issues, I would work on that, if she is guided to keep working on their relationship. I am not sure how long they have been together. Someone I am with will know what I do. I think he has a lot of explaining to do too.

Exactly, I would have said “you ever noticed when kids have a crush they write all over their desk or in their diary over and over again? Well this is the older version and I thought it would bring our Union good luck” simple. He rude and a lurker though smh🤦🏽‍♀️