Guidance needed???

I luv this platform & too much thnks to lala for creating this I had ordered halo,sweetening,rekindle,gf I wan to know I wan to lit halo frst to clear the blockages btw my ex & me & negativity also so I will lit halo for myself only or also for my ex ?? 2nd I want to know from uh all I m thinking that can I will burn halo in aparts 6 hours for my mom also my mother is my only champ my luv my everything but I seen she's not being much well or healthy since some time she had feeling many time bodyache, headache, tiredness & she had taking nrml painkillers for the pain as many times I understand itz may be called age factors & family stress also ,cn uh pls suggest me cn I lit my halo for 6 hours also for my mom, & dear all itz my mom so please tell me exact cause I dint want to drop her in any harm or in more pain pls suggest cn I lit halo for 6 hours for my mom if I lit so wht it will work for her ..or is it good or not for her..or anything else uh all suggest me for her?? 3rd is I had ordered 2 gf one for my brother & one for my frnd i had halo so I will frst lit halo then lit my other candles & gf for my brother but if my frnd will lit her gf in her home so cn she will also in a need to lit halo frst cause I cant order 2 halo & she is in too much need cause lack of bad financial terms kindly suggest wht she will done???