I have been with my sons dad off an on for four years. It always seems that in the month of July he loses his everlasting mind. I don’t love you, I don’t want to be with you etc. but then a cpl months later he’s all in love with me again. He told me once and a few others have said that they believe his ex wife has a root on him. He told me after they separated that she told him she would make sure he would never be happy with any other woman. I can’t tell y’all the feeling I get when I’ve been around this woman but her vibe/spirit always seems off to me, in a negative sense and her behavior has always always made me literally want to vomit.
I’m starting to believe that she indeed does have a root on him. So I purchased the following candles and intend to use them in the following order. I just need fresh eyes as to whether or not I am using in correct order/way. newly coming into my spiritual self and really understanding and believing how spiritually connected things are.
intense Unhex/Healing/Halo( me first and then him)
crossroads/blockbuster/remove blockages (me first and then him)(or both of us at the same time if possible)
Intense Summon/obsession (him)
Intense DA/Sweetening/Ahari (me)
Rekindle/Return Love/Passion
Fidelity/MF/E
after that I will continue using Healing(single), Halo(single) and the crossroads/blockbuster/remove blockages as needed.
Would this be a good order to burn? Do I need to add something or rearrange the order that I use them?
it may sound crazy especially when I tell others but when we first met I was shown that this was my mate/husband etc. AND I was also shown that it was going to be a long and trying road. So I knew this was coming but I also know what the other side of this looks like.
Apologizes if I’m being one of those annoying newbies.
@visionthepurpose Take sometime to just work on you first. Heal yourself. Do a whole round of work on just you and then do the love work. Don’t forget a reading is not your future set in stone.
Also with the Intense DA/Sweetening/Ahari make sure your putting it on you not him. Bc then that will draw all the attention to him not you.
Hey I saw on LaLa’s IG page and the forum to use sweetening before you do any love work. I think it’s in the booklet (I may be wrong) she states that if the target has negative emotions they will obsess over those emotions and be more irritated. It’s better to sweeten them
Definitely get Mars for protection
Might also want to consider adding the child/ren to the cleansing, healing and protection, especially if the work is something that affects the bloodline.
You forgot one of the most important steps. Protection. The Mars candle. For you, for your target and for your spellwork. And I would also book the unhex and the soulpurge ceremonies performed by Chaela to layer the cleansing work. She also offers a protection ceremony that you can book too.