Hi guys, so me and the guy I've been dating recently decided to start rebuilding the relationship however he blows hot and cold. Whenever we start getting really close, he pulls away. He also has been going through depression the last few months and has been hurt before which is why he's scared of jumping in with both feet. He does love me and wants to commit but he is scared. I burned Halo last week and he's now dissapeared...is this normal?
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My ex and I had a huge blow out after UHH and then halo healing separately. I just did Halo again and I see what I did wrong for us to get so mad at each other. Healing next because we are in no contact. His anger and mine were put of this world.
I can’t say what’s normal but when I did Halo on myself and my target he was fine at first then his behavior became erratic and he disappeared( he does suffer from anxiety and depression as well. ) while he disappeared I was also purging. Once I lit healing he slowly came around again.
Did you burn halo on yourself or both of you?
I would recommend you doing a spiritual bath, light a white candle, then a chakra (multi colored candle) using Psalms, let them burn completely out on its own if possible and pay Close attention to your dreams see what spirit it’s revealing to you. During this time keep an open positive mind make sure your surroundings are cleansed. It has been my experience to focus on my energy and listen to what spirit is telling me, I’ve taken advice from readers but for me spirit come to me. Always always trust yourself the little voice deep inside will not fail you don’t get to anxious give it time but be Prepared for what you ask sometimes what we ask for might not be what we really want but relay on your guides and you can’t go wrong. What other candles do you have. On hand?
I've been in deep depression and I totally understand this behavior. I can see one of two possible reasons why this has happened. 1. Either spirit sent him away to heal himself ( because lighting HALO put you in the protective bubble from his 'hot & cold behavior) so that when he returns, the relationship can progress. Or, 2. Spirit sent him on a different path entirely never to return because something different is meant for both of you. This may be the "waiting game" but I'd advise not to wait too long. Continue to live your life.