i ordered 3 candles, DA, sweetening, & obsession. i see my ex/friend soon & my obsession and sweetenming candle don’t come til sunday but my DA candle comes today.. should i wait til sweetening come than do the other 2 candles or just do DA? we not mad at each other but we not the same and the energy not there, i don’t even feel comfortable around her any more, so what should i do ?
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but can i do sweetening afterwards because i don’t have sweetening yet but i don’t we on bad terms we just got spotty communication right but i did get a reading as well , she my twin flame and they said this is temporary and we was gone have spotty communication
Definitely sweetening before DA if the person may still be upset as DA can cause then to get angry or a huge argument.. speaking from exprience I've learned to always sweeten first even just in case
thank youuuu!!!! but do you think DA will have an strong affect when i do light the candle tonight? it’s just we the same person but things changed once we broke up but 4 weeks ago she told me she really in love with me and im her happiness but dont show it after the argument we had to cause our break up
You can also start sweetening her w/o waiting for the candle. You can do a sweetening jar, you can put a pic w/ names & dobs in a glass jar w/ honey, YOU can take sweetening baths with champagne, beer, roses and my favorite is to offer something to Oshun, a yellow candle w/ 5 sunflowers, 5 oranges w/ honey on them (always asking for what you want when doing anything). You can get one sunflower & in the middle of it add honey & in a piece of paper write her name & stick the honey on it, just keep the sunflower in a vase until it starts dying. Theres a lot of other ways to do sweetening while you wait for your candle.
I would try DA. I would especially make sure I had the oil on.