This just happened I am burning 4 POS to separate my ex and his girlfriend he walked in my house and saw the candle moved it over saw they’re pictures and demanded to know what I was doing. Asked if I was cursing them. I told him to get out of my house he called my a crazy bitch. Then texted me I am crazy we have been fighting in texts since I have held back a lot of things about his cheating but I let him have. Is this going to ruin my conjure????? Is this going to ruin my path to getting him back??? I am doing the lovers return. Help!!!!!!
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I understand and have every intention to give him time that’s my plan from the beginning wait for him to come around.
We are divorced have been for a year. I have been working on myself during this time I have been since we separated in nov 2019. Feelings have never lessened. I have done healing work I have done therapy with my therapist. Had reiki, mediumship guidance. Mediation, Psychic reading and palm reading. I burned halo. I have been giving him space I have totally leaned back since September I don’t contact him unless it’s about our daughter. She is only four so we FaceTime at bedtime and I don’t speak unless he speaks to me.
You know what this may be something that needed to happen. He may come around this isn't the time. You two have a child and are married. But the spirits may have showed him this to move him away from you. Sometimes you chasing something not meant for you, your blocking your blessings. Work on yourself. And if you still feel the same about him and wanting your family go back and continue this work. But really take this time to give him space and work on you more importantly.
@browneyes1339 have you done halo for yourself and healing? I would work on myself in the process and let the 4 POS do its job. Try not to stress over what he saw and keep pushing forward. You may just come out stronger and more solid once you cleanse and heal. Glad you got everything off your chest and then set boundaries for your home. Chin up chic and stay focused and powerful 💪🏽❤
Thank you i may just do that. The positive side of this is I got to confront him about his cheating in our marriage and he will not walk in to my house anymore.
I always burn when I am home and know no one is coming. I would have moved it to another spot had I known he was coming. I was in the shower when he came he didn’t give me a time when he was bringing our daughter home just said in the morning....he doesn’t know what it was for so I hope me telling him it’s was for healing worked...I am just feeling very defeated! I know that spirt doesn’t always change things if it’s not meant to be. Why did this happen??? I am going to continue with my candles because I have invested in them and then just wait and see I guess.
This is kind of tricky because everyone has free will.... but since he saw the candle with the picture he has already made up his mind. It’s strange that he would go over to the candle and move it and see his picture that would make anyone upset- spirit definitely reveals all ... i usually burn my candles in my bedroom for privacy or just burn them when I know I wont have people over. But I’m sorry that really sucks it’s kind of hard to reel people back in after they witness something like that ... a lot of people don’t understand hoodoo.
He always just walks in like he still lives here when he brings our daughter home.
I am so scared!!! How do I fix it??
I told him it’s a healing process and no harm is intended
Damn girl
I saged my house. I just don’t know what to do. I want my family together I do. I am so scared I fucked this up.
This is my set up
I agree. That's really a lot for him to take in and really no excuse you can give him cause his ex picture was there too. Idk how you have set up, for next ( if there's a next time) you don't need a big picture just big enough to write his information on the back. I would make it big as the candle so it fits under the candle everyone thinks it's just a pretty candle maybe tape it to the candle, especially if you have traffic in your home.
Sis Ima keep 100 buck with you. You gonna have to have all the spirits/universe on your side for this one. If his perception of you is just that after what he saw, that interpretation of you could spread far and wide. If his perception of you being a “crazy bitch” and developing a distain for you because of what he saw is strong enough, his will will be strong enough to not even consider getting back with you. It is possible for people who feel like their ex was their worst to never come back due to will. Now is the time for self reflection. I suggest saging, Halo and healing FIRST before moving forward with more work that way you REALLY know that you want him back. A shift in mindset as well. I think if you come from a clear mental shift with healing you’ll be better able to know if that is what you want and attract. It seems theirs a lot of baggage to unpack that you kept from saying to him about cheating.
I was going to burn 1st pos next to get in his head this is what I have 1st pos, healing, da and 4th POV coming ordered yesterday, rekindle, sweetening, obsession,loyalty what should I do? Help
Your going to have to think completely positive.
Once you are done with the conjure your next burn should be sweetening! Chant for understanding along with the chant the book has! Or if you have DA so that then sweetening. Understand that you shocked the hell outta him and movement take some time, so be patient
Keep positive energy and positive thoughts going... burn some sage ASAP!!