Is it ruined?

No, count it as a blessing, Sis... Just start over (cleanse space), re-light the candle, re-do chants, and think positive... lol Everything is fine... My husband accidentally blow out my candle just before I was about to start our day- go thing tho (I counted as being protected from harm). When I was able I re-lite the candle and finished and time needed. I did cleanse, chant, and monitored the candles activity to make sure the flame stayed at a safe state... I burned the un-hex candle and the flame got out of control and the glass cracked and I had to put it out- (mind you this happened after I tried to burn my petition paper in the flame. I did this with the intention to have my words right and dispose of the petition properly. And I this was a step I feel was right to do at the time. And Lala did not instruct me to do this. The glass cracked twice and the flame was growing out of control... So I put it out... And I re-lite it the next day.) I felt a relief and release almost immediately... My relationships, and communications have changed for the better like over night... My mind-set has changed too... I’m starting to remember my dreams more like I use to long ago... Now, I’m did my Halo candle and I did not burn my petition paper in the flame and it burned clean... Funny thing I was watching the flame and felt an immediate feeling of joy and relief... I saw the flame get low at one point and I immediately started to give me and the candle a pep talk and started dancing and the candle was responding to me... The flame came alive and when I shoulder shimmy and flame did the same shimmy... lol I love these candles... I also been wearing Guardian Eriss mixed with Peace and Power since I got the order, but especially after Un-Hex...