Ive been seeing this guy for about 8 months.. started as friends and then slowly morphed into friends with benefits. I find myself falling for him more and more.
i know he likes me a lot, we text all day every day, are very open with each other but i also know he enjoys the attraction.
ordered Unhex/crossroads and planning on using Lamour after.
do y’all think this is the path to take?


I would give it time and Work on my self first meaning work on yourself love first 💋😍cleanse yourself, heal yourself and open roads for yourself and see what happens.. if you don’t love yourself first no one will ever love you!! I’m not saying it in a bad way it’s just that when you love yourself first everything else falls into place lol 🙈👫❤️Try halo, healing, crossroads and definitely do the truth candle for him to see whats on his mind cause after the truth candle you might not even want him or you might even wants him more.
I would do Unhex Halo, Crossroads, Mars spelled, Bella, Esteem, or the Bella/Esteem Intense, and then re-evaluate (myself) and see what I want/how I feel. I might do L’amour, or something like that, but I wouldn’t specifically apply a love candle on someone before we were in a more committed/exclusive relationship. I might actually get a Truth candle to learn why my relationship with this person seems to be stalled. It may not be him. Maybe, unconsciously or in some way invisible to you, maybe you’re sort of ‘blocking’ him. This is just an example. It could be ALL him, lol- I’m just looking at it like as if you were my friend. I have a gorgeous friend who gets a ton of male attention. She’s very successful, beautiful in an exotic way, great sense of humor, she’s fabulous. BUT OMG her defenses are up all the way to the moon. I would get her a Truth candle if she asked me which candle for a situation like what you have described. I think always Unhex Halo Healing Crossroads and Mars are the best way to start As I write this I think I would prescribe to all Unhex, halo healing crossroads Mars followed by Truth for any dilemma.
No why can’t you enjoy the journey of love? Why do you feel a need to manipulate it and him ? I don’t recommend magic in relationships that just my opinion Leave it alone sis please before you fu a good thing
Yes, absolutely. I would add Halo and Healing after Unhex and before Crossroads just to really clear those paths, then move on to L’Amour and Loyalty - better yet any of the L’Amour intenses (like L’Amour/Fidelity) for getting him to commit to you. 3rd Pentacle of Venus is also excellent for this if you’re comfortable conjuring!