Purging negativity or being led to not go near it.

In the last 2 weeks, i completely started over. I had a dream that said i had negative attachments and influence around me so i lit unhex right away. I felt anxious, sick to my stomach. So 3 days after i lot halo, well things got really interesting. My ex texted said he dont think he was ready for a relationship but he was falling in love with someone else too. So in my power i said i didnt want to be in contact with him. That turned into a disrespectful argument. I was so worked up I left the candle lit, doors unlocked and my lights on. I had to turn around and leave work soon as i got there. I felt so energetically depleted. So i just spoke to my ancestors and sat with the energy of them. I started to get sick every time i went to work. So I believe there is negativity with my job but i can not afford to quit. Oh it gets crazier! The next day, i had a dream about someone I only seen in passing 2 years ago once. In the dream he was asking me why am I afraid to love him. I started healing yesterday. And every time i start to get for, my body gets so tired. I dont know what is going on but its a lot. I will still burn healing but its hard.