Okay me and my man have gone thru things in the past and things seem to be better now. Especially with me being pregnant. We are trying to push forward.
I, how ever seem to keep thinking and bringing up the past in conversation and questioning him and slightly accusing him of things he used to do . Even tho there is no proof and he seems to be doing right
Now there has been a change in our home dynamic. We both used to work full time and now it's just him since I am bed resting bc of the baby.
So I honestly feel like because I have so much time on my hands that I am creating things in my mind that aren't there. Like literally making up stories that didn't happen just to start something up.
Even my family thinks I might be makinging things up in my head bc I'm still hurt inside but I did light halo healing unhex intense for us to heal from our past, which I feel helped me heal faster than I should have but now and then I spaz and create situations that are not there. And to top it off pregnancy hormones don't help.
My question is, do you think that I can use STFU on myself to stop bringing up the past and to stop thinking about it so our relationship can move forward?
Bc I do feel it's me pushing him away bc of my thoughts racing bc of me being bored at home.
For yourself you should use the Domination candle to make yourself stop bringing up the past… STFU is more or less for your enemies, not something that you want to use on yourself.
I laughed immediately when I seen the title cause you know how women can be when they are overrating like I’ve been doing. I read your post and got sad. A lot of healing work still needs to done. Cord cutting residual energy (cut and clear). Start working on yourself. Self love candles, sweetening on yourself, power, etc. I pray for healing over you. I don’t think stfu will help with this though. You have to stop the negative self talk as soon as it pops into your head. “Nope! Not today satan!” Start doing affirmations when you have these negative thoughts. My family is complete. I am so grateful we are loving towards each other, etc. Many blessings and congratulations on the baby! 🥰🥰🥰