With all due respect to Auntie La La and the Conjure Family; some of yall in this forum are rude af to these newbies with a genuine desire to learn while maintaining public decorum and respect for Spirit. Have some of these questions been asked a thousand times; Yes! However, some of yall real live act like yall came out the twat just knowing it all. When yall first started out; yall had tons of questions and instead of being grateful for the energy and realm (that if it wasn't for Auntie La exposing us to), yall want to bully the newbies for asking the same exact questions that you had when you first started out.
Yall will beg Spirit to help you out with your life, but will miss the test of you helping out your brother and sister by answering a simple fuckin question. Yes I'm fully aware that everyone must research and do their due diligence but asking questions is a huge part of that research. We're all on this journey together!
Also I be scared to post or ask questions too sometimes ok but That’s why I try to help if I can.
excuse my typos and long windedness i got disabilities and I am dyslexic.. but that don’t make me unintelligent or unwelcome no matter who say what. Imma do me ok 👌🏽 🦂 periodt
Love this post! We are all in this together ❤️
I agree with this post. Everyone started out at some point. Some are better at reaching outside of the forum but that is the reason this forum was created and people forget that. I do wish there was a section for more seasoned members because there are a lot of newbies. I have questions that the majority on the forum can't answer. I try to answer what I know because usually it just takes a minute or so.
@Jasmine Witt Girl thanks for saying what’s many of us are thinking 😊😇
💞 yes! I sometimes would be nervous to ask a “dumb question” I’d go stalk Auntie Lala’s stories to find answers for an hour or so before coming here to ask for help just because I didn’t want to annoy anyone by asking a question that was already answered 😅 scrolling down the forum and seeing the pinned posts about do your research and newbies need to stop asking the same questions really hit me haha. Didn’t want to be that newbie 😩 I’ve been fortunate though to receive good energy and positive replies from others here, very much appreciated. I definitely agree with you though, doesn’t hurt to just be kind and not be a rudey poo lol 😁
It’s okay misunderstandings happen.✨
Preach!!!!! 😩
@Laaady_g ♏️ I hate people that try to scam and prey on people. She’s been doing it for some time.
That’s NOT Lala. ☝🏽
@Jasmine Witt I’m talking about the fraud on your post claiming to be Lala, I didn’t misunderstand your post.
WTF?!?! Are you delusional? You’re NOT Lala, I feel sorry for those you’re able to fool.
step down ! or step the fuck out of my forum ! tell em girl
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Sweeten them 😉 (just trying to lighten the mood) cmon auntie got* that XL one for us now hehe 😜
I might upset some saying this. I am not trying to be rude. I agree with not being rude so if this comes off like I am, I apologize. If anyone feels like I am attacking them, I am not. I am NOT saying don't ask questions. One of the main things said over and over again is YOU have to put in the work. I see where people are saying no one answered their question(s) so they had to put in the work and find the answer to their question themselves.
I'm going to say this, when I first joined this forum I asked two questions. One was completely ignored and the other got one response "Yes" ... that turned me off from the forum entirely and I decided not to even engage or access it. I went about learning what I needed to know on my own and through the lead of the Spirits I work with.... information came to me from all different directions because Spirit knows exactly why I was lead to The Conjure Family. After a while, Spirit lead me right back here and I noticed people asking questions and not getting a response and I was moved to be the one to start giving help. I've been doing that ever since, with discretion; because I've noticed that not everyone here is receptive to guidance, instruction or constructive counsel.
I agree 100% that’s why I don’t ask question scared of the response I would get
Definitely when the Spirit moves you move just like Luda say🙏🏾☝🏾
I have legit questions about a conjure candle and refuse to ask because of this reason. so I've been googling and hope I get it right
You’re really awesome for this post. Tyssm blessings to you!!!! Cause I was one that was looked over recently and a newbie so I honor your strength
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 well said!!
Exactly I get so scared to ask questions so I read the entire booklet again and then search the forum before I finally ask my questions because I get scared. And somehow someone always comes at me side ways. And it’s usually the same person too but I’ve nicely responded to them and made them look stupid twice already. And another thing I’ve noticed too is when ppl go and rudely give negative feedback about their situations that they’re trying to fix. Like okay know it all just cuz it ain’t work for you doesn’t mean you gotta bring everyone’s boat down with you too; Save yourself cuz my boat is still sailing and I’m going to make it to shore, believe it! 😌
Well, I’m very new, to the candles, rootwork, the forum everything & I definitely agree with this entire post! I’m on here trying to learn & most importantly not be judged!! Which deters a newbie like myself from asking. Which is frustrating in itself, because I have to search the forum & read the post & answers instead of directly asking.
Thank you. I’ve been with lala since she first launch this space on and off for that exact reason. I spent so much money and will continue to do stuff. I carillon utilize this platform for questions and for inspiration but that is the same reason why I am on and off this because I see people being rude and I remember when I was completely new to the whole practice. I get both sides but some stuff I see be hella harsh and unnecessary
Yes thank you!
And props to the people who ask the questions and when they’re met with rudeness they still respond with kindness!! I aspire to have that 🤍
The middle icon on the bottom of the page lol
Sis, this! Yessss!!!! Agreed! 👏 🙌
👀👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽This is WHY i dont even read most of the things on here because of how they be treating people🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@Jasmine Witt check your inbox love
I agree. Not sure if I am still considered a newbie or when you are no longer considered one. Also, you never know what people know and who they are...meaning maybe someone has questions regarding the candles and process here but it does not mean they are new to conjuring and magic.
Amen Amen
I agree ☝🏾 because I asked someone a while ago about something and the person was so rude and disrespectful.. I had to go back and reread what I previously asked.. I thought it was me at first..All I asked was do you but the candles on your ancestors altar or do you need a special place for them? And the scrutiny from there .. smh
*if you don't (corrections)
Exactly! With all the 'page links and being Rude'. Enough is enough. I normally just 'scroll' when I Read their Rudeness, if don't want to HELP, save your 'Chat' for yourself...