@Lala Inuti Ahari , I’m not sure if you will see this but yesterday I posted that I thought a very toxic person was putting a spell on somebody and I was trying to protect them using your candles. I found out this morning, she’s also using your candles.
quick back story: I Am a widow and several years later found a man who I fell in love with. He took on a dad role for my daughter (who’s father died) and we were very happy and living together and running a business. My ex best friend was always jealous. One day, my boyfriend turned on a dime and couldn’t stop obsessing about her and eventually left me for her. I knew immediately she had put a spell on him. But I didn’t know what kind.
I found out this morning that she’s using your candles. I am too. Rekindle, Mars, truth, unhex, halo, healing etc.
He came home not long ago but I think she did another candle because he went back. And ever since he’s been back he’s been extremely sick. I thought maybe our spells were fighting each other.
He’s currently at my house and not feeling as sick but when he’s at her house, he feels weak, achy, no appetite, depressed, confused and exhausted. When he’s with me he feels “better” and not in pain.
He’s leaving her tomorrow when she’s at work. (It’s dangerous for him to leave with her present).
I did a candle yesterday and all I have to help right now is Mars but I think I have to wait until Tuesday. I also have an unhex.
I’m not sure what to do to help him today. I’m certain she probably did tether or something when he left for those few days because he’s extremely irritated with her but not for any one reason.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.


Definitely Unhex and protect for him, but now it’s time to focus on her and make her the target. I suggest maybe using War, 6th Pentacle of Mars (to protect and return to sender), Ogu Vodou Rite, and possibly getting some banishing work done to remove her from y’all lives for good.
This can continue back and forth. I think at this point the focus should only be on unhex, healing, and protection. No one should have to suffer to the point of sickness contributed to continuous love work.
If she’s using the candles, she knows that the forum is here. Think outside of the box love! You really need to evaluate if you want to keep going through this?
Has he gone to the doctor or ER to find out anything?
How do you know she's using lala candles specifically?