Becoming a devotee gives you the strongest results but that requires commitment and research. But barring that option, there are pros and cons to each. Lala is already a devotee so you're kind bouncing off of her relationship when you do the rites. But you're putting your own energy in if you do it yourself. So i don't know which is "better". It's just another option really.
Becoming a devotee gives you the strongest results but that requires commitment and research. But barring that option, there are pros and cons to each. Lala is already a devotee so you're kind bouncing off of her relationship when you do the rites. But you're putting your own energy in if you do it yourself. So i don't know which is "better". It's just another option really.